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Your Wedding, written entirely around you.

I'm Tom, a civil celebrant based in London. I create bespoke wedding ceremonies for couples who want something personal, memorable and completely their own. Whether you're planning an intimate gathering or a big celebration, a London rooftop or a family garden, I'll write and lead a ceremony that sounds like you.

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HOW IT WORKS

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SEND AN ENQUIRY

Get in touch with some topline details your date, location, and what you have in mind for the day.

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INTRO MEETING

Whether by phone, video or in person, we'll have a relaxed conversation to see if we're the right fit.

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WRITING THE CEREMONY

Once I have all the info from you I'll write the script. You'll read and agree with everything before the day.

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YOUR WEDDING DAY

I coordinate with your venue, planners and suppliers to deliver the ceremony you planned for. Taking the stress out so you can enjoy every single moment.

MY APPROACH

A registrar reads from a script. I write yours from scratch.

Before I put a single word on the page, I want to know your story. How you met, what makes you laugh together, the moment you knew. All of that goes into a ceremony that your guests will remember because it couldn't have belonged to anyone else.

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I bring a background in live events and performance, so I know how to hold a room, keep the energy right and make sure the moments that matter land exactly as they should. Warm, unhurried and with a sense of occasion.

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WHAT THIS MEANS LEGALLY

My ceremonies are symbolic blessing ceremonies, which means they carry deep personal meaning but are not legally binding on their own. To make your marriage fully legal, you'll need a short registry office appointment, usually 15 to 20 minutes, which most couples arrange separately on the same day or the day before.

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This actually gives you complete freedom. No licensed venue restrictions, no set format, no time limits. The ceremony can happen anywhere you choose.

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WHAT I OFFER

Every ceremony I lead includes a personal consultation to get to know you both, a fully written ceremony shaped around your relationship, vow guidance if you're writing your own, music and reading suggestions, full rehearsal support, and me on the day, arriving early, coordinating with your venue and keeping everything running smoothly.

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CREDENTIALS

I hold the City & Guilds Assured Civil Celebrant qualification from Regent Academy, a nationally recognised accreditation covering ceremony design, personal storytelling and professional delivery.

 

I come from a background in live events, which means standing in front of a room and holding a space with warmth and confidence is something I'm trained and experienced to do.

Let's write your story

If you'd like to talk about your day, even just to see if we're a good fit, please get in touch. No commitment, no pressure. WhatsApp, email or phone, whatever feels easiest.

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